Rules of conduct for students in public places
Probably, every person at least once in his life came across a child who behaves incorrectly. His actions can cause a different degree of rejection, but it immediately becomes clear to everyone, sometimes intuitively, that the principles of society are violated by the child.
Order in society is ensured by laws and moral standards. Children are responsible before the law only after reaching a certain age limit, but this does not mean that they go unpunished.
Serious offenses are the responsibility of parents and other legal representatives. In addition, the result of any misconduct is public censure. A student who does not comply with certain norms will not be able to establish communication, fully live and study, risks becoming an outcast.
There may be several reasons why schoolchildren behave badly:
- they may simply not know how to do this;
- rules can be observed purely formally, without a conscious desire;
- children often simply do not understand why there are rules of behavior, and what are the benefits of following them.
To avoid this, the following is important.
- Timely explain to the child how to behave. For this, individual and group conversations are held, posters and memos are placed. In early childhood, parents are the source of knowledge. When a child becomes a pupil of a kindergarten or school, specialists also join in the upbringing.
- Link theory to practice. It is impossible to analyze all the situations in detail, but you can give students the basic principles according to which they will build their model of behavior.
- Monitor violations, analyze problem situations. It is important to teach the child the basics of introspection.
If the child has already learned antisocial actions, retraining it will be more difficult. Therefore, training should begin in early childhood. This does not mean that restrictions will be placed on the child. Just such measures will help the child understand the behavior of other people and form their own opinion.
Culture of behavior
The culture of behavior obliges to behave in accordance with the rules and norms adopted in society. And here we can talk both about universal human norms, and the principles inherent in any particular society. You cannot distinguish between culture for the upper or middle class. All have the same values, and they do not depend on the status of a person.
The established ethical standards should be common for children of different age groups: both for primary schoolchildren and for adolescents. Even the baby can have the right manners, and you need to behave well not only in society, but also in the family.
The culture of behavior is a system of interconnected elements, such as:
- interpersonal relationships within groups and between individuals, as well as between students and teachers, parents and other members of society;
- etiquette (and the ability to apply it in different situations);
- competent oral and written speech (since all communications are carried out with the help of it);
- non-verbal signs (these include gestures, facial expressions and other actions that complement speech and promote understanding by other people);
- attitude to the environment (including nature).
Do not underestimate the peculiar preparation: before going to any public place, the student or his parents (if we are talking about a primary school student) must take care of his appearance and hygiene.
A neat and tidy appearance is also part of the child’s culture, however, like his attitude to himself, the organization of his studies, home, life or leisure.
In general, several factors always influence the student’s behavior culture:
- the influence of educational institutions;
- belonging to a religious or ethnic community (mentality);
- example of others.
All norms governing student communication can be divided into several groups (depending on where they are used).
In the process of studying
This may include behavior in general education, music, sports schools, sections, circles.
- Communication between students takes place during breaks, after school or at a time specially designated by the teacher.
- At a break, you can’t run up the stairs and play outdoor games, during which others can suffer.
- Communication should be calm, without the use of profanity.
- During the lessons, you cannot talk, make noise, get up without permission and distract other students.
- Greetings and teachers should be respected. In class time, before you say something or ask, you need to raise your hand.
- On the school grounds, the rules form the charter of the school. According to him, the child must obey the requirements of the staff.
- Since the activities in the school are subject to a strict schedule, it is important to observe punctuality, not to be late. In case of skipping for a good reason, it is necessary to warn the teacher.
On the street
Students overcome the way to school or another public place on foot, by public or private transport; accompanied by parents or alone (if age permits). A few rules of conduct in such cases:
- being outside the school walls, the student must remember that any act can negatively affect both his reputation and the reputation of the institution;
- communication with peers and young children should be friendly, be sure to say hello and say goodbye;
- older people should be treated with courtesy, offer all possible assistance, give way to transport, hold the door;
- Do not distract the driver on the bus or parents when they are driving;
- All games that interfere with passers-by or threaten someone else’s property should be held at appropriate playgrounds and sports grounds;
- the student should be instructed by parents or teachers on how to behave on the sidewalk and roadway;
- the law prohibits minors from being in unaccompanied adults in public places after ten in the evening;
- for your own safety, you should not talk to strangers, get into a car with them or agree to requests to move to another place.
In other public places
When visiting a movie, theater, zoo, library, stadium, the following should be remembered.
- Before you go to any event in a new place, you must carefully study the acceptable rules of conduct. For example, in the cinema it is permissible to use food and drinks during the show, but in the theater it is not. In the zoo you can buy special food for animals and even pet them, and in the museum all touch is prohibited.
- All actions must be carried out with the expectation that they do not bother anyone. In the library, theater and cinema (equally), students are forbidden to laugh, talk on the phone or in any other way cause inconvenience to other visitors.
- If you can talk about etiquette, you should not attract attention with loud noise (for example, in a cafe). The interlocutor and service personnel should communicate carefully. You can’t turn your back, ignore greetings and neglect polite words (such as “thank you,” “please,” “goodbye”).
- Boys from an early age should be taught to help girls, to let them go forward. At the entrance to the building, first go out, then go in.
- In the event of a dangerous situation, you should immediately contact the rescue service or at least inform adults.
Generally accepted principles
Any child will sooner or later become an adult. It is terrible to imagine what will happen in society if people's behavior is chaotic, unlimited. That is why it is important to educate in a child qualities that have been indulging for several generations.
The basis of any upbringing is the principles of responsibility for one’s actions, humanism, kindness, friendship, and respect. The student who has mastered them is able to make individual decisions in accordance with the situation and without contradicting social standards.
The main principles of behavior in society include:
- respectful attitude towards elders and assistance to younger ones (from the position of strong to weak);
- tolerance towards other people, including people with disabilities;
- Respect for private and municipal property;
- protection of nature, animals, plants, taking measures to limit environmental pollution;
- ensuring their own safety and the absence of physical violence against other people.
In the next video, see the main rules of conduct in public places.